Dating/Marrying Outside the Albanian Community Vajza & Gra
In this episode, Dita and Dajana method the fresh controversial subject out of matchmaking/marrying beyond your Albanian culture
Within this extremely requested thing, Dita and you will Dajana means the niche from one another situations of 
feedback which is: the coziness and you can familiarity off relationship/marrying when you look at the people, as well as the acceptance and delightful expansion of your own society that is a direct result matchmaking/marrying away from it. It read aloud an email sent away from a beneficial listener exactly who shares the lady tale away from matchmaking a beneficial Latino men inside wonders for 5 years as well as how it’s got impacted its matchmaking in the past, and you can wants guidance on how to approach that it unavoidable issue together with her loved ones since she’s prepared to possess a high-level partnership with him down the road. Dita and Dajana express their own matchmaking experience with non-Albanian males and you may establish as to why they by themselves avert from dating Albanian men. They discuss the pro’s and you will con’s that come with so it. It dissect the very taboo topic because of the skills as to why Albanians become it crazy stress at this point/marry within community, together with challenge it to your-supposed and you may dated foregone conclusion by focusing on the wonder that is included with having the freedom so far/marry Whom you Like without the need to deal with people consequences particularly as actually shunned, singled-out, chatted about or-bad case circumstance- getting “disowned”. As to the reasons cannot we accept all people regardless of race, religion, intercourse, and you will people and commence to decide exactly who i have a premier-peak connection that have just how they love and you can cure us? Exactly why is it so difficult getting Albanians to understand the notion you to “outsiders” are merely since wanting to share this new Albanian community and pamper by themselves in it? Worries you to Albanians has away from “losing” its society/life due to the community growing the limits only manifests new anxiety on the facts by rejecting those who perform intend to day/wed outside of the people. Just how are they meant to express their society the help of its the new-located spouse/family for those who shun him or her before they’re able to begin to create so? As to the reasons are unable to Albanians play with their tight religion out-of a rigorous-knit family members moral thereby applying one to those just who go out/get married beyond its people to anticipate these with discover palms and permit individuals who are not Albanian so you can accept the brand new community just like the well?
Contained in this event, Dita and you can Dajana method new controversial topic away from relationships/marrying outside of the Albanian community
Within this very asked situation, Dita and you will Dajana means the niche away from each other things from opinions which is: the comfort and familiarity from matchmaking/marrying in the people, in addition to desired and delightful extension of the culture that’s a direct result dating/marrying away from they. It read aloud an email sent off a listener just who offers the woman story away from relationships a beneficial Latino men from inside the miracle for 5 age and exactly how it’s got affected their matchmaking prior to now, and you may asks for suggestions for how to deal with this inescapable issue with her loved ones because the the woman is happy to enjoys a high-peak commitment with your later. Dita and you may Dajana show their unique relationships expertise in low-Albanian boys and you can identify as to why they themselves avoid out of relationships Albanian guys. They talk about the pro’s and you will con’s that are included with this. They dissect the very taboo subject by insights as to the reasons Albanians getting so it crazy stress up to now/marry inside their people, including difficulty that it into the-supposed and you may outdated formality of the emphasizing the wonder that include getting the versatility up to now/marry Who you Love without having to deal with one outcomes such as for example as being shunned, singled-aside, chatted about or-bad case situation- getting “disowned”. Why can not i accept all people no matter what race, faith, sex, and you can society and begin to choose whom i have a leading-level commitment having merely on how they like and you can get rid of all of us? Why is it so difficult getting Albanians to grasp the idea that “outsiders” are merely since the eager to share the Albanian society and you will pamper themselves within it? The fear one to Albanians has away from “losing” the people/way of living due to the area increasing its limits only exhibits the brand new fear into reality by rejecting individuals who do plan to time/marry beyond your community. How are they meant to express their community using their the latest-discover partner/family members for people who avoid him or her in advance of they’re able to begin to perform thus? As to why cannot Albanians have fun with the rigid religion regarding a tight-knit family unit members moral and apply that to the people which day/get married outside its neighborhood in order to desired all of them with unlock fingers and allow people who commonly Albanian so you’re able to accept this new community because better?